I like your description of The Girl on The Bridge ("It's about a fucked up monogamous heterosexual man, and a fucked up monogamous heterosexual woman, who when they're together are marginally less fucked up.") because that's how I've always seen it but I've never put it so concisely. Thank you.

As for all the rest of what you say, I can see it is mostly you working through thoughts & feelings & suchlike and maybe you don't want comments, but hey you can always ignore or delete me :-)

I've been wondering 'is it worth it?' about a fair bit of stuff recently. Glad to have proof I'm far from being the only one...