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People are worried that longer drinking hours won't lower binge drinking and the associated violence. I can see why. Initially, there will be a period while people get used to it, so they will still be rushing around half ten, but then they won't stop until twelve. Secondly, Ireland introduced longer hours, and they just got longer drunk periods. Is our culture more Irish or French? I think we all know it's the former.

I think there's a really easy way to lower binge drinking, or at least violence. Legalise pot. I think binge drinking is people trying desperately to have a good time, and/or forget how shitty their everyday lives are. Legalising dope will mean that some of the people who would have been pissed out of their heads will now be stoned instead. Instantly, less violence.

Also today, rising oil prices might mean that flights are more expensive. This is a good thing. Flying is the least fuel efficient means of travel, and the amount of fuel is finite. Flying should be rationed, or if you prefer market forces it should at least be really expensive. For some reason our crazy society taxes other fuels but not aircraft fuel, hence flying is effectively subsidised! You know there's something fucked up when it's cheaper to fly London to Amsterdam to Liverpool than to get a train.

Yet somehow all those short term minds are worried about is that they can't afford to fly abroad. The idea that every human being can have a holiday with a flight is as dangerous as the idea that everyone can have a car. These ideas will kill us all. We can see the impact from less than a third of the world doing it. What's going to happen if everyone in Africa gets a US style SUV doing 9 miles/gallon, as equality would suggest? Answer is, those of us that aren't flooded out by the rising sea will choke to death. Nice.

On a more personal note, I've got a new toy. It's a wooden flute, and it's difficult to play.

Date: 2004-05-11 12:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-jez.livejournal.com
On a more personal note, I've got a new toy. It's a wooden flute, and it's difficult to play.

Ah ha! So it is you!

Date: 2004-05-11 01:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
Can I have a go? ;)

Date: 2004-05-11 01:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
I played the oboe, is it harder to blow than that do you reckon?
ps what you think of this corset I might get?
http://www.deadlygirlz.com/corset3.htm

Date: 2004-05-11 02:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mr-s-face.livejournal.com
You realise it's just the corset, you don't get the girl with it?

Date: 2004-05-11 03:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
You never know if I beg they might throw her in!

Date: 2004-05-12 12:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
I doubt it, shes dating a man from cradle of filth. Anyway theres oodles of pics of her naked around, if you're interested.
The corset is good but I am morally opposed to deadlygirlz because he believes that women shouldn't be bigger than, say, a small size 12.

Date: 2004-05-12 07:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
Shes not called Morrigan Hel is she? If the DG bloke is as you say I think thats v silly as most woman are over a size 12 inc moi and anyone much smaller than a 12 is unlikely to have much to put in a corset anyway!

Date: 2004-05-12 01:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
Yep, Morrigan Hel is right.
The size 12 thing is stupid. Its beause he likes tiny tiny waists and big tits, but thi is a realtively rare co,mbination, particualrly th older you get - unless of course you are a barbie doll or surgically enhanced.
You only have to look at his website to see his ideal of womanhood.

Date: 2004-05-12 05:15 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
what a ridiculous statement, their corsets go up to size 30" witch means it`s for someone with a 34" waist.
I am a size 14 myself and I have 2 fantastic fitting deadlygirlz corsets, they also made me very nice (and well fitting) long sleeved mini dress. Check your facts before you start making these kind of statements on the internet.
Deadlygirlz rock

Date: 2004-05-12 05:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
I was told be a reputable retailer that they were no longer stocking deadlygirlz due to the lack of range in sizes. Apparently they had reduced the range in their recent redesign. Allegedly they still do occasional custom work for those who are larger. Glad you got something you liked, the work they do is very good quality.
Frankly, even a 34 inch waist as the max isn't exactly a range representative of UK women, is it? I notice you haven't really tackled whther they portray a limited physical shape on the site.

Oh, and my aren't you brave, l'il miss anonymous. Do you go round challenging everyone who might be in error on the net? cos wow, that must be very tiring, and pretty much like cleaning the Augean stables. Good luck with that.

Date: 2004-05-13 02:02 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
That must be fairygothmother.
Deadlygirlz doesn`t sell to Fairygothmother because they have a contract with another shop in Camden.
Fairygothmother would very much like to sell deadlygirlz corsets but they can`t. They have told me the same story when I went to their shop and I already questioned it at the the time. I emailed deadlygirlz about this and they said I could order any size, on the website or buy the corsets in Pink Fluffy in Camden. Nothing to do with their sizes as the corsets are available up to size 16.
You obviously have some personal problem with Deadlygirlz otherwise you would not attack a label that offers such good quality and a full range of corsets in all sizes. Is the idea of a fashion label using size 8 or 10 models for their presentation completely strange to you?
I am a size 14 myself and I am English, the statement of a size 14 not being representable as a standard size in the UK is ridiculous.
I personaly really like the models they have on the website and the way they present themselves. That`s part of the reason I like to buy the label, besides the quality and the price.

I have no lj as I don`t like to take part in gossipping and slagging off other people on the internet, but I saw this on a friends journal and just wanted to comment that what you say is unfair.

Rebecca
dark_star_73@hotmail.com

Date: 2004-05-13 05:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
Well, thanks for clarifying that. If you had simply said "you know, I'm a size 14 and I've got stuff by them, I think you are mistaken" you would have got a better response and made a better impression of the (your?) company.
As for you being size 14 therefore their site is representative of a wide range of sizes, you have missed my point and I have no interest in discussing it further with someone who cannot be polite and who I have no investment in developing any sort of interaction with whatsoever.

Date: 2004-05-15 10:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mr-s-face.livejournal.com
Perhaps I'm missing something important here, but why is a total stranger reading my livejournal? More pressingly, why is a total stranger who doesn't want an argument starting an argument on my livejournal?

Regarding the subject at hand, from the deadlygirlz website, I see the sizes range from 20-30" waists. With a 4" reduction that means 24-34".
Now, perhaps this is just me, but I always thought the point of corsets was to push the fat up or down so as to reduce waist size and enhance the breasts? If that is indeed the point, then it seems deadlygirlz are aiming for entirely the wrong section of the market! In order for a corset to do something, the wearer would actually have to have a reducible waist, i.e. one with some fat on it. They would also need to have breasts that were big enough to have a noticeable sag when unsupported. This would suggest to me that corsets would be more useful the larger the woman was, and completely unnecessary below a certain size. I would place that "completely useless" size limit around a 30" waist, with not much effect gained up to 34, so it seems to me that most of the sizes deadlygirlz do corsets in are sizes at which corsets are pointless.

Think about it like this:
You say you've a 34" waist. You find your corset useful. Now suppose you were 2" bigger around the waist, and 2" bigger around the breasts, would a corset be more or less useful? The answer is of course that it would be more useful.
Now imagine that you were that 2" bigger girl. You want a corset, you can make far better use of a corset than those 24" sticks, but deadlygirlz refuse to make you one because...

... and there really isn't any good reason. Deadlygirlz' refusal to create corsets for precisely the people that could make best use of them is extremely confusing to me. I can see that were I a 36+" waisted female I might conceivably take offence at the implication that as a 36" waisted girl I was too big to enjoy nice clothes.

Frankly, I think in the long run a refusal by a corset maker to cater to the market segment that needs corsetry will probably put them out of business.

Date: 2004-05-15 03:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
The problem about writing entries which are not "friends only" is that anyone can read them- LJ is a public forum and I have been known to comment on strangers journals if they say something I have an interest in.

I see your point about corsets- I know several larger girls who find their corsets v flattering to their figures but I would disagree that they don't have much effect on smaller girls. At a 30" waist I use my corset to give me more of a pinched in hour glass figure and a tiny waist and I also use it to enhance my breasts which it does by pushing them up- at a D cup I am at the limit where my boobs would sag if I went without a bra. Corsets also have the effect that they can give anyone however flat chested a bit of a cleavage- some girls have the opp problem you are describing and are unhappy because they are too thin and feel self conscious in a society that celebrates big tits.

I think the answer is that companies like DG should accept that woman come in all shapes and sizes and cater for as large a range as possible.

Date: 2004-06-01 01:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
I thought you might be glad to know that after seeing how DG have treated someone I know that Im going to get my corset from Drac in a Box, a company that does a wide range of sizes.

Date: 2004-06-01 03:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
cool . . .next time I am in sheffield we should have a witchy gossip.

Date: 2004-06-01 03:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
Yeah,they basically were off with a girl I know cos she happens to be blessed with big boobs and wanted a top making so they treated her like she must be huge or something! She actually is only a size 12-14 but the guy was definitely off with her and another girl I know has said the same about them. The goth and fetish scene is supposed to be about looking different but they have basically the same body facist attitude as normal society- ie if your not a size 10 your not attractive. I also had a look at Morrigan Hel's website and I don't actually find her attractive- I don't think it looks that good when you can see ribs! Are you coming to visit Rob soon then?

Date: 2004-06-01 03:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
:) welcome to the not-so-alternative scene. Some of my friends who go up and down in weight could tell you precisely who really likes them and who only likes them at a certain size!
Morrigan Hel is by all accounts a very nice lass, but I mainly think "Tall!" when I see her. i think that about 70% of teh population though.
I think I am due a visit, but it will probably wait till July cos I have three contracts at the moment and it would be nice to come with some time to spare. Anything interesting on in July i should plan around?

Date: 2004-06-01 04:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
I think most women go up and down in weight I know I do! I've generally found on the Sheffield goth scene people have an appriciation of how people of different sizes can all look good :)
I was called "tall and intimidating" recently by my exes new girlf,Im actaully 5' 7" but tend to wear huge boots a lot, the intimidating bit was prob about my habit of saying exactly what I think!
In July there is a Batfink on the 2nd and various people's birthdays that I don't know then there is Tony's b day toga party on the 23rd who I do know and which should be good!

Date: 2004-06-03 01:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
Last time I was up, I met one of my ex's new g/f. She thought i was very tall (I'm 5'1 dont tell anyone cos they dont know), but it's entirely boots and hair. Plus he told her i was having a nervous breakdown or something, so she wasn't expecting to see me fully dressed up (the mans clearly a fool).
Hum, toga's. I think the 2nd would be better but my work situations gone all wibbly. Damn group work. We shall see.

Have I ever met you in person?

Date: 2004-06-03 02:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
I find my boots and hair extensions add a good few inches to my height, Rob tells me you make the latter, I really must practice and save some cash! Ahh the joy of twatty exes, did she look surprised you actually had clothes on?
I don't think you have met me, I actually only spoke to Rob for the first time in Feb which is a bit silly as we know a lot of the same people- mainly goths! I had seen him around before, hes not hard to miss! I rem it was the first time I had worn my new corset, I didn't realise in the excitement to go out that I'd let my mum put it on upside down and Rob was the only person who actually pointed this out to me so i was impressed!

Date: 2004-06-05 09:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
Have added you to friends list so you can see recnt pic of soemthing I made. I don't do "hair" extensions, I do wool and plastic etc cos frankly it's alot less work.
Th ex is actually rather sweet (Danny) but he tends to catch me at bad times, hence his impression that I was having a breakdown or summat. Though I have to say, he clearly doesn't know me as well as he thought if he thinks i would ever be seen at a nightclub without looking fab. That would just be Wrong and Bad.

I had to explain to our other brother all about corsets recently :) He normally has no interest in clothes. I used to think mayabe they accidentally swapped him in the hospital.

Date: 2004-06-05 09:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
I've added you back although I warn you my LJ is prob quite dull- some goth angst mixed with getting excited about buying new pants etc!
Well one has to make an effort or you might as well stay in! Its hard to understand how people can have no interest in clothes, my dad is one of them, his idea of getting dressed up is putting a different pair of M&S cords on in a lovely shade of gray! There are also some people I know who only seem to dress casually all the time, I dunno ifs its lack of confidence to dress up as they don't want to stand out.
Has your other brother never seen a woman in a corset? If he had I'm sure he would quickly develop an interest!

Date: 2004-06-05 09:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
We are not sure if brother is interested in women. Or indeed people. He mainly seems to like computers. He keeps peopel he likes and family very, very far apart.
I should warn you parts of my journal are extreme;y anatomically intimate, for reasons that will become apparent if you delve into it at all.

Date: 2004-06-05 10:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ms-rivet.livejournal.com
I had a quick look and it doesn't bother me- I have ulcerative colitis and IBS so I am quite used to other people/me talking about things which can be quite intimate.
I am also on a gluten free diet as although my UC is controlled with drugs I am in pain quite a lot from IBS,I have also cut out lots of other food as had intolerance tests so I have a nice long list. Rob wants a copy of my intolerance list as he has taken it as a challenge to cook me a meal,should be interesting to see him attempt something without cheese!

Date: 2004-05-11 04:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jozafeen.livejournal.com
Rising fuel costs = crappy for me getting to work.

Rising fuel costs+ your theory on flying and less pikeys abroad and more pale people with less wrinkles over here - you am so wise!!!!!

Date: 2004-05-12 01:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mr-s-face.livejournal.com
less pikeys abroad = more respect for Britain in foreign countries.

bonus.

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